mooshael jackson.

So I never wrote a Michael Jackson post when he passed, if you’re into tech lingo and know anything about something called the long tail then you’ll know why I didn’t.

I was a hard core Michael fan, I was given a VHS copy of “Smooth Criminal” when I was a kid and watched it until the ribbon ran ragged.

I remember exactly where I was when I saw “Thriller,” my dad was making tuna noodle casserole while my sister and I watched the making of before watching the actual video so we wouldn’t be scared.

I also remember watching “Black or White” for the first time.

Yes, he got a little weird, so when he passed it was pretty surprising, but I didn’t lose any sleep over it.

About a week after he passed I decided to play some MJ on my iPod on a long drive with the moosh.

Dude, the kid could barely sit still.

She was IN. LOVE.

She couldn’t get enough. Still can’t.

I bought a DVD of his number one videos, oh how the kid danced while I did that whole “happy tears of pride and joy” from the couch. “Thriller” didn’t even phase her, unless you count being possessed by the beat.

I went out last Friday night with some friends so Cody rented “This Is It” to watch with her while I was gone (I had already seen it when it came out in theaters.)

Apparently my house turned into a dance party. While there’s no video evidence of Cody dancing, I know I didn’t teach her all these moves and she had to learn them from somewhere.

For the record, Cody never denied moonwalking across the bamboo.

the moosh told me today if I didn’t watch it I’d have to “just beat it.”

She then proceeded to dance.

My kid is awesome.

on death and dogs.

I don’t want to be writing this post.

Because I don’t want to be writing about what I’m going to be writing about.

Last year my dad’s dog Katie passed away. Katie was old, diabetic, blind and somewhat paralyzed from a stroke. But she and Addie were thick as thieves and Katie taught Addie more about compassion than any other living creature could. Addie sobbed for days after Katie’s passing, and she still remembers her almost daily.

Goodbye Katie

Then my sister’s dog Delaney passed away from old age. Delaney treated Addie like her little baby. She let Addie crawl all over her and hug the daylights out of her and never once complained.

Miss Delaney

Addie has an understanding of heaven, and that when people go to heaven they are happy and taken care of. They no longer hurt or suffer. Katie can see and Delaney can walk without pain. Our religion teaches us that death is not the end, that we will be with our loved ones again in heaven for eternity. Now there’s no doctrine when it comes do dogs in heaven, but I can tell you if dogs aren’t there? It can’t possibly be considered heaven to Addie.

Addie even dressed up as Katie for Halloween.

lauging puppy

McKenzie was Katie’s little dog sister. McKenzie was always scared to death around Addie until recently. Addie became quieter, slower and gentler (not to mention bigger.) Addie and McKenzie came to a quiet understanding that they were friends, bonded by the spotted one.

walking the dogs

Do you see where I’m headed with this?

McKenzie got sick. McKenzie had surgery. McKenzie got more sick.

the moosh and mckenzie.

McKenzie had to be put to sleep.

I have to tell little miss.

I don’t want to.

Sometimes being the parent sucks.

makin’ lovin’ in the oven…only easier.

We had guests (okay, the missionaries) over for dinner tonight. I decided to get fancy with dessert after Cody rolled his eyes when I busted out the box cake mix (I think he believes I’m getting lazy in my old age.)

In my Martha cookbook is a Caramel Banana Cake with Mascarpone Frosting.

All you foodie people are all “ooh! ahh!”

Well guess what? I’m not giving you the recipe because the cake was kind of nasty. But everything about it’s creation was perfection. Why perfection? Because this was my first fancy cake with my fancy new Frigidaire Professional Series oven.

I have cooked and baked and loved to cook and bake for years.

I have won awards for baking.

This is the first time I did some serious cooking with a high end stove.

Continue reading “makin’ lovin’ in the oven…only easier.”

lisa leonard and the twitter bird. *giveaway*

Comments Closed. Winner of the $100 Lisa Leonard gift certificate is Karissa Hulse! Congratulations!

This is Lisa Leonard.

This is what Lisa Leonard makes.

Lisa wants you to follow her on Twitter. In fact she’s offering a $100 gift certificate to her online shop, Lisa Leonard Designs, if you’ll do just that.

I asked her if she wanted all of you lovelies to leave a comment mentioning your favorite Lisa Leonard piece, she said “No.”

I asked her if she wanted you to become a fan of hers on facebook, she said “Don’t worry about it.”

I asked her if she wanted me to talk about her hair, she said “Not really.” (But still, her hair.)

Lisa just said “I’m trying to build my Twitter community. Can you help?”

Of course I can help.

Follow Lisa Leonard on Twitter,  and you’re entered to win a $100 gift certificate from Lisa herself.

I love it, she keeps everything so simple.

I will choose a random winner from among her followers who leave a comment below. The winner will be chosen and notified by email Tuesday, February 16th at 12 EST (9 PST.)

(Not on twitter? You’re weird.)

the not 100% awesome alarm.

Hey kid,

Now that you’re fully mobile I’d just like to admit that one of the most not awesome things about parenting is waking up to you staring at me.

Seriously, scares me to death.

Last night I discovered something even more not awesome.

Rolling over in bed to you on my pillow, STARING AT ME.

And you’re always like “What? Isn’t this bed big enough for the three of us?” Not completely understanding that waking to a staring set of eyeballs is the kind of stuff nightmares are made of.

I mean, there’s other stuff that kind of sucks when I stop and really pay attention to it, an elbow to an unassuming boob, clippy barrettes shoved so deep into my scalp they draw blood, stepping on Polly Pocket crap in bare feet and the constant CONSTANT sticky.

But today at lunch? I taught you how to stick orange peels in your teeth.

feeling peely

I also taught you how to farmer blow in the shower. Take that phlegm!

By far the best lesson learned? When I taught you to yank your dad’s leg hair when he rendered you helpless with tickles. This is a skill that will serve you painfully well in life.

I get to be with you everyday.

stay at home awesome.

We have a backyard for you to explore.

the great backyard

A house for you to play in.

shadow moose.

I love love love you you you.

Please stop staring at my while I’m sleeping.

xo

blissful role models.

(photos and links in no particular order.)

I want to be…

As gracious as Chrissy, Edie, Lisa and Sibi.

Blissdom 2010 Day 2

As unconditionally loving as Frelle and Lee.

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As courageous as Ari.

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As passionate as Alli and Ally.

Blissdom 2010 Day 2

As talented as Mishi, Dawn, Lotus, Deana, Angie and Amy.

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As fantastic as Carmen, Esther and Mrs. Chicken and Poppy.

Blissdom 2010 Day 2

As loyal as Rachel and Tanis.

Blissdom 2010 Day 2

As powerful as Barbara, Catherine, Paula and Liz.

Blissdom 2010 Day 2

As hysterical as Allison, Marie, Heather, Bridget, Cassie, Michelle, Monica and Christina.

Blissdom 2010 Day 2

As coordinated as Jessica

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As honest as Steph.

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As immensely beautiful as Amber, Sarah, Robin, Amy, and Danielle.

Blissdom 2010 Day 2

I know I forgot people. Please don’t take it personally.

My head is up in the clouds with happiness from this last weekend at Blissdom.

I love these women. LOVE. @mommystory @iveyleaguemama

I want you to tell me who is what to you.

Leave me comment saying “I strive to be as ______ as _______” and leave a link to their blog or twitter.

Why would you want to do this?

Because it’s nice.

And because I will pick one person to win this…

custom Lisa Leonard necklace, given to the speakers of Blissdom 2010.

A very rare Lisa Leonard necklace. Rare because only the speakers at Blissdom 2010 were given them.

Why am I giving it away? Because. That’s why.

I’ll pick a winner Wednesday, February 10 at Midnight EST.